July 1, 2008

What kind of traits do I look for in a person ?

I think I fall for personality more over physical appearances for sure. Most people don’t believe me when I say that, but I suppose if you’re talking about appearance, I don’t think it really matters much. Personality wise though, I do look for a person who I find goodness in although that’s the easy part for me. I can find goodness in just about anyone even though I may hear or know certain things about that person.

Regardless, I think some traits I look for is kindness, compassion, and someone who’s loyal and faithful. It’s probably a lot to ask for, but it is something I do notice in someone else if I’m interested in them.

Another trait I probably look for is if someone has their priority straight or not. I find it extremely attractive when someone knows what they want to do in their life, but if they’re lost, that’s okay too. I can understand it both ways, but it’s just very, very attractive when someone knows what they’re doing and whatnot.

And I find it attractive when a person have a certain passion for something whether it’s dancing, writing, singing, drawing, or just anything. 

I like it when a person can be independent. I find that sexy as much as I hate using the word sexy, I think it’s very sexy. It’s just something that I find that a person doesn’t have to always depend on someone else to help them get through something and it just shows a lot about their character. It’s okay to depend on someone else and whatnot, but I like independency in a person.

I also like intelligence. That’s one hell of an attractive trait to me. As well as someone who has wisdom and a certain maturity level. 

Okay, honestly I can list a bunch of traits that I look for in a person, but to boil it down, there really aren’t specific traits I look for in a person. If I’m interested in someone, I’ll be interested and even though there are some flaws, I would still find goodness in their flaws. Because I know that I won’t find the “perfect” person out there anyway and it’s impossible for me to just find certain traits in people and then if they don’t have it, I become uninterested. It’s just weird for me. I mean it’s nice if they have certain traits to them, but rather than that, I normally just like the person for who they are all flaws or not.